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CONSISTENCY--the key

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Getting an audience is hard. Sustaining it is even harder. It demands a lot of hard work and consistency (of thought, of purpose and of action) over a long period of time. When the ovation is loud, I pray we don't disappoint. Good day to my amazing audience. Thanks for being a keen follower of my blog. I hope this meets you well.  I know it has really been a long time since I updated. Periods like this are part of the growing process in our existence. We get too busy sometimes. I'm back now and I promise to do better. Over the period, I have analysed and studied factors that help you stay on top of your game. Like I said earlier, it's a function of consistency and hard work. First, let's talk about consistency:  *Consistency* ; they said is the key to successful relationships and partnerships. Whenever we hear success stories, especially the short-timed ones, we wonder how it happened. These are results of tears, sweats and blood. Dwyane Johnson (The Rock) o...

A letter to my love

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Well, may be I have met you already or may be not. You might be here and would probably see this too. In case it's the latter, there's obviously no map in this world that can tell me where you are. If otherwise, I would taken the next bus there already.  But one thing I know is that I have a vast amount of unshakable faith that we will meet one day. Just hold on. I will look for you and I will find you. I will love you and I will snatch you from whoever is holding you from me. It's just a matter of time.  I am (however) not promising you a perfect marriage yet but one thing you can be guaranteed I will give is a home; a home full of long-lasting happiness and peace of mind. I know I am one hell of a crazy girl. I can be funny at times. But (trust me) I like to make people happy.  So you can already start to imagine the efforts I will put to keep you healthy and happy always. I will speak sternly but not rude. I promise to be submissive. And I'd like that you...

when love comes around

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Good day to you my alluring readers. It is my prayer that you find genuine partners whenever you embark on your missions; not for what you have but for what you are. Today, we would discuss the some sub-themes under love. Love is an intense  feeling of attention and attraction; an indebth emotions of trust, care and security. Love brings ease in the mind. Without mincing words, love is definitely a beautiful thing. Smiles... My advice, however, is that do not become too desperate while searching for it. Do not set the standard so high that even yourself can't meet up. No doubt, the need for true and genuine love can't be over-emphasized. We might all find it so hard to admit but, deep down, we know there is ease of mind when we find those persons we can pour our ourselves out to. As we all no life has so many phases. This includes our relationship life. Being single is also one of the phases of our relationship life anyways. Being single most times can't be help...

because it's my birthday

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Blessed is that wonderful night she was conceived. Ehm...Oh wait! What if it wasn't actually at night? Funny right?  Her birth is a living wonder with special stories attached. It shows how much wonders the almighty has in plan for her life. Hmnn...Ẹni ìtàn! The Yoruba name for mystery children born with unique stories. Mama's special one. Her EDD was suppose to be August. But Ẹnitàn knocked on her door late July. She is destined to come, grow and deliver God's wonders. When her birth was announced, the whole family's mood lightened. Her cute face, chubby cheeks, little fingers and magic smiles confirmed her eagerness to come into the world earlier than her birth. She's got that sparkling black diamond skin that shines even without the light of the sun. Well, I am Enitan. I grew and I am still growing. I'm growing into the radiant energetic, industrious and impactful woman I wish to be. I'm an inspiration and blessings to everyone and...

Never Give Up; There is Hope Around the Corner

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In the light of all of these hardship, breathe the air of hope and be assured that everything will soon be alright. Hello beloved!  Hope I meet you well. I see and appreciate all your contributions to living a better life. Sooner or later, we will get to the land of promise. Keep the spirit moving.  I come at you this morning as a motivational speaker. I want to perspire you to aspire you today as I take you through this journey. In this journey, challenges are abound. A friend of mine, Ibrahim (@fotonugget on Twitter) once said that 'the dead doesn't move when the world is burning'. So I will advice that you man up to your challenges now and tell life you can do it. After all, you are all you've got. The road to self development and self discovery could be very tough and tattered. But (trust me) you need it to excel. Like the popular work of Prof. Tai Solarin says; MAY YOUR ROAD BE ROUGH. It's worth the efforts. We all know the best things to do are the...

THE LOVE WE ALL IMAGINE

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A wonderful and glorious morning to my harmonious reader and family. Your girl is here again with another interesting discussion. Life is very amazing. Make sure to enjoy every bit of it. To everyone who has made it this far, this is for you... Before we go ahead with today's discussion, let's ask ourselves a very important question: What is LOVE? Personally, I sometimes imagine if truly LOVE exists. What if it's actually an illusion? What if the word was just something coined out of some little experience of the ones before us? So many thoughts keep running through my mind.  While writing this, so I won't come and fall your hands here with my cooked up interpretations, I check my English lexicon for the meaning of the word. According to the dictionary, LOVE is an intense feeling of attention and attraction. A great interest and pleasure in something. A profound feeling of trust, care and security. Chai! See big big grammar. See oyibo wey I see o. Lol. But j...

YOU AS AN ENTREPRENEUR (02)

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Hi beautiful people!  Thanks for staying with us. I hope you are doing very fine too? On our last post, we talked about Entrepreneurship and how to survive in the market. You can catch up here (https://www.teniolalimarh.com.ng/2020/06/you-as-entrepreneur-1.html ) in case you missed it.  On this episode, we will continue our discussion on entrepreneurship as you will be introduced to more steps and activities that an entrepreneur must know. Sit back and enjoy. And don't forget to share.  Before I go further, I forgot to mention one very important point in the previous post. It's the fact that you shouldn't venture into any business because 'people' are doing it. The decision should be borne out of passion. Although it might be for financial buoyancy at the long run, make sure it's something you are really interested in. Else, you might get tired along the line and productivity will be affected.  Other factors include; 1. Get Relevant Training: Before ...