when love comes around

Good day to you my alluring readers. It is my prayer that you find genuine partners whenever you embark on your missions; not for what you have but for what you are.

Today, we would discuss the some sub-themes under love. Love is an intense  feeling of attention and attraction; an indebth emotions of trust, care and security. Love brings ease in the mind. Without mincing words, love is definitely a beautiful thing. Smiles...

My advice, however, is that do not become too desperate while searching for it. Do not set the standard so high that even yourself can't meet up. No doubt, the need for true and genuine love can't be over-emphasized. We might all find it so hard to admit but, deep down, we know there is ease of mind when we find those persons we can pour our ourselves out to.

As we all no life has so many phases. This includes our relationship life. Being single is also one of the phases of our relationship life anyways. Being single most times can't be helped so don't ever think less of yourself. You do not need to lower your standard or downplay yourself. You still deserve that dream relationship. Don't give up. 

Part of this phase is a presence of an opposite figure in your life. Probably someone that feels that special space of loneliness in our lives. When I say this, I mean someone we are longing to see or meet.

The funniest part of this phase is that before it happens, there is always that convincing thought of you doing the right thing. So well and good, it may come out dicey and spicy in the long run. Sometimes, it comes with mixed feelings and you can't even decide what you want.

After finding true love, you want to give a chance at it; hoping and praying it succeeds. We all can't deny the feeling and excitement that comes with wanting to reciprocate what it offers. But for many, it's always hard to take in. Sometimes, blending with your partner doesn't come along so fast as we think it should go. So don't rush. Go with the flow and with time, it will happen. 

A time like this breeds thousand thoughts; an indifferent feeling of you striving hard. But lol. Here I am; telling you that it's normal like every other human.

Sometimes loves comes around and knock us down. That you fall doesn't stop you from rising or moving forward... Trust me, the process is worth the efforts. When it comes around and decides to stay, do well by playing it right. Pay close attention to details. Find out about the love languages if need be and do not forget to apply the law of attraction too. 

You might not be able to put into words what it is you are feeling exactly. But this intense feelings might not go away until you realize this is all that you have always wanted.

We are in a fleeting world where everything can change in a second so when you find that one person that loves and wants to be with you, the one  that make your heart race at the mention of their name, stick and hold on to them because not everyone has the opportunity to get that person.

Till another time,

Teni❤