On restarting journeys...

Hello readers, I hope you are in the best state of mind today?

I have recently been doing a lot of new things. Well, not new things per se. Some are things I have always been doing. But this time; differently.

Moving on, I've been mending rules, looking for new ways to do things, new approach to the situations life is placing on my palms, and restarting journeys. Although, I am not transitioning into a new career. You already know I won't go into details but I deep-dived into it and I figured it takes a lot of courage and sacrifices to restart a journey and above all it is very very hard and tiring.

This is why I am dedicating this to everyone transitioning to new careers, starting a new relationship, moving past pasts, trying to get healing, venturing into a new business. Shout out to everyone basically starting to do things differently; embarking on journeys they have never been through. Know that every effort you put is reflecting and the people can see. The cheers might be coming from the farthest end of the crowd but it's worth it. 

I'm writing this with all of my emotions mixed and messed up. They say: the end is a new beginning. Of course, I see the beginning as a new end to an old approach. Although the decision to restart isn't always the hardest part, but rather the adaptation that comes with it. 

On the journey, I came across a quote and I think I am trying to set straight. It says "Never restart a journey and use the same road that failed you before". But, at times, when the restart isn't because the road failed you but a technical crash, shouldn't you give it another try? When it wasn't that you made a big mistake previously. Although mistakes or not, lessons are meant to be learnt. 

So how do we effectively ignore the same route that had us turning back?

Believe me, it's easier said and read than done. I mean this is not an actual physical road and all of that. What I'd like to say is, no matter how and what, we should always listen to our instincts and don't forget to 'follow who know road'

Being that as it may, we usually don't just  start things over. It's why we need some things to push the decision. The push doesn't have to be from within you. It might be from people or circumstances that surround you.  While that's happening, don't forget you come first. You matter most; your happiness, self-development and financial growth and independent comes first and shouldn't be traded for anything.

As for people, we are all humans. During the process, as we singlehandedly decides our steps, we are prone to all sorts of reactions. Find strength to adapt to such. But why bother in the first place? About the whims of people that are more fickle than a ripening Avocado? 

Be you and Do you.

Till next time

Teni😍