2020: THE LESSONS.

Perhaps till we celebrate more years, 2020 remained the most talked about and eventful year.

Hello darling!

Happy new year, may this new year comes along with new tidings and I hope you are entering the new year with full positive energy and faith as always.

Keep your hope alive beloved, remember I love you.

I promised in my last post to publish the lessons I learnt in 2020 as my next post and here you go.

Meanwhile, I found it a little bit hard to compile this, unless it comes up in a conversation, I can hardly remember some.

Here goes nothing, you might want to add, feel free by dropping them in the comments.

*  Make wishes, but be moderate about it, don't make it hard on your self.

*  Have principles and follow them.

*  It's normal to cut people off.

*  It's normal for people to reach out to you when they want to seek your help.

*  Some memories are not meant to hold on to.

*  If you have what it takes, treat yourself right, doesn't have to be expensive.

*  Nobody deserves to make you feel like they are doing your life good by being with you,Be it friendship or relationship.

*  A relationship that humiliated you is not meant to be rekindled.

*  Take a rest at intervals, but don't stop.

* Not every statement deserves your attention/ reply. Being silence could be therapeutic.

* Not everyone deserves your words, make it an habit to ignore.

*  People will love you while some won't like you at all, it's alright and fine, you don't have to please them.

*  A relationship/friendship that makes you question your worth and esteem is not needed for your growth.

* You can procrastinate productively.

* Uncertainty is the roots of all problems, the more we try to be certain about situations the more insecure and uncertain we become.

* You appreciate, you receive more.

* Life will always happen, having/getting someone to talk to makes you feel better.

* Inheriting enemies is toxic for your growth .

* Growth don't happen in your comfort zone.

* positive thinking makes you manage stress and improve healthy well-being 

* you don't have to like everyone and everyone do not have to like you.

* Disappointment in life is normal and unavoidable.

* Without consistency, nothing is achievable. 

* Make it an habit to go through self challenging reality check, it makes you accountable of your actions.

* People can be praised for your happiness but you will be blamed for your unhappiness.

* It's normal to dwell in unhappiness, if need be cry,       but do not make it hard on yourself.

If they ask you why, tell them mama said so.

While coming up with my coming blog posts, I will add more and put them into use for further comprehension.

Stay not just alive but be happy.

Don't forget to give no room for self hatred this new year.

See you soon.

Cheers

Teni❤