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Criticism is inevitable. Either way, you will always find yourself up in the mess. Stop being too quick to respond in defence. Just be you and stay focused.  Hello to my beautiful readers. If it's your first time here; welcome! I hope you find this worthy. You can as well check our previous posts to have a feel of what our discussions are like. Perfectionism is an act where one unwilling to settle for anything that is not perfect. He or she does not meet highly extremely standards. In psychology, perfectionism is a personality trait characterized by“striving for flawlessness and setting excessively high performance standards, accompanied by overly critical self-evaluations and concerns regarding others' evaluations.” To a perfectionist, anything that’s less than perfect is unacceptable. We all thrive to be perfect. So you must have been nodding; affirming the fact that you are a perfectionist.  But WAIT! Study this charts below and thick as appropriate.  You a...

Perhaps till we celebrate more years, 2020 remained the most talked about and eventful year. Hello darling! Happy new year, may this new year comes along with new tidings and I hope you are entering the new year with full positive energy and faith as always. Keep your hope alive beloved, remember I love you. I promised in my last post to publish the lessons I learnt in 2020 as my next post and here you go. Meanwhile, I found it a little bit hard to compile this, unless it comes up in a conversation, I can hardly remember some. Here goes nothing, you might want to add, feel free by dropping them in the comments. *  Make wishes, but be moderate about it, don't make it hard on your self. *  Have principles and follow them. *  It's normal to cut people off. *  It's normal for people to reach out to you when they want to seek your help. *  Some memories are not meant to hold on to. *  If you have what it takes, treat yourself right, doesn't have to b...